VUBOQ is Angry.
And upset and hurt and irritated and frustrated and is focusing all of this anger, upset, hurt, irritation, frustration on his absentee boyfriend. I understand that some people don't react well in crisis situations. They don't know what to say. They don't know what to do. But, even I, who I consider to be one of those people who doesn't always know what to say/do, even I know that asking "what do you want me to do?" or "what do you need?" is a million times better than doing nothing or trying to turn it into a big joke. Save the jokes for next month, when I'm feeling a little more secure. I mean, it took several phone calls just to get Y to understand that at one point I thought I might be killed. I almost blacked out. I was (and sometimes still am) frightened. And, on Saturday, he calls, we talk for a bit. Then, he says that he needs to fill out a form or something and he'll call me back. This was around 11AM. No call. About 12 hours...